Ahaha, you brought up the soap rape thing! Do you watch soaps? I've been watching Days of Our Lives practically my whole life. I don't recall them doing a "soap rape" plot (where the victim falls in love with the rapist) until just a couple years ago. But they put a spin on it later, where the victim all but admitted it wasn't really rape. Whatevs.

The Han/Leia kiss has never bothered me -- it's obvious Leia is into him. What amuses me more in ESB is Lando's over-the-top male pig comments towards Leia. I thought he was supposed to be smooth, not sleazy! lol

I like the canon pairing of Anakin/Padme, but I do find them to be a bit creepier than Han/Leia. (and their love story not as fleshed out, unfortunately) I like reading fic where the creepy aspect is explored.