lol, totally. The majority of fandom folks I've seen have been realistic about what happened (well, if not overly and harshly judgmental, in my opinion, but to each their own), but there are definitely some insanely delusional types on the fringe. Like, dudes - regardless of the extent of whatever happened, it happened. They admitted to it. As with all gossip in the media, stuff gets sensationalized up the wahzoo, and we only know a sliver of the full picture (which is more than we even should know, in my opinion), but those statements? Those alone tell us it happened, and no amount of delusional rationalizing is going to change that.

(also hi. :) lol)